Notes from June 20

Also, here are the notes I had from tonight. Alot of it is repetitive.

Possible KP's:

• Convince those who fear that they can overcome it by faith (in general).
• Here's the story (Dianne)
  Man and woman in love
  One day they are chatting about life and hope and fear
  They start to talk about their fears
  The guy won't fess up to any…but his primary fear is losing her (this may have been driven by a childhood fear)
  She's kidnapped and he's knocked out
  He wakes up and he's in the dark; "if you prove yourself worthy, you can get her back; but you can't turn on a light."
  He has to overcome an old fear (the dark), to overcome his primary fear (losing her)
  If you can leave the house w/o turning back, you can have her back
  He hears commotion and a gunshot - he walks out and light floods the area
  He turns around and she's holding the gun (maybe she had to overcome her own fears)
  
  Another (Orlando)
  Bully or person who has a high level of respect
  They go into training
  Who?
  Those who are driven by their fear of failure
  
  That?
  Fear can only be conquered by facing it
  
  Because?
  engaging the process is the reward
  The reward is found in engaging the process
  The activity of confrontation is the true reward
  Starting the process
  Moving through the process
  
  KP:
  It is the process of engaging one's fear that is the true reward.
  
  What will you get by overcoming:
  Completion
  Fulfillment
  Happiness
  Self respect
  Accomplishment
  The elixir
  You reach your potential
  You know what COULD be
  What is possible
  You experience release
  Freedom
  Facing your fear is the first step to real growth
  overcoming fear is the key to unlocking true potential
  Roger's Question: Why are you here?
  Why do you face fear?
  Hope of reward
  Stronger and smarter
  Erases the question
  You will always ask why
  Fears piss me off
  There's a rush; a good feeling
  Learning new things is exciting
  Until you face it, you will always wonder
  There's a thrill in risk
  More opportunities
  It feels wrong
  The process of learning is the reward itself
  The process is the reward
  Human insights for those who fear failure:
  What they have now is better than nothing
  They may have moved forward ahead, but have shrunk back
  They are probably comfortable
  They may have very poor/slim support systems
  The mindset :
  They see overcoming as a barrier, not an opportunity
  Even though desirable, its just not worth the effort
  How do you get them over the barrier? You give them a REALLY good "because"/"reason"
  They know they have a poor support system
  They have to have the "aha" moment that drives them forward
  Low self worth
  These are some of the barriers you are going to have to overcome in people. In designing your story, you have to move people emotionally to get them to accomplish the "what".
  
  
  completion
  Fulfillment
  Happiness
  Fulfill your nature
  Shows you the possibilities you actually have
  The only thing to fear is fear itself
  You are always going to be a loser if you let fear win out